Love Midlife Hacks
When Plans Fall Apart: How to Turn Ruined Days into BETTER Memories
Ever had one of those days when everything goes wrong? You plan the perfect outing—and then the sky opens up. This week’s vlog dives into how to keep ruined plans from ruining your life (and how we turned a canceled zipline adventure into an all-you-can-eat French...
Do Not Fight Over Family Heirlooms: How We Divided Stuff Without a Feud
When my dad passed away, my siblings and I divided his belongings smoothly. Simple. Respectful. Drama-free. My husband’s experience was different. His parents left no wills. One sibling took advantage of the situation, and it caused some resentment. Our choice? Let it...
Stop Bossing Seniors: Why “Purge Before You Die” Is Terrible Advice
Everywhere you turn online, someone is telling seniors to declutter their homes so they won’t leave a "burden" for their kids. It sounds practical. But let’s be honest—it’s terrible advice. Here’s why. Cleaning Out a Home Isn’t ImpossibleWhen my father passed, I was...
The Hidden Reason Autumn Feels Heavy in Midlife
If the first cold snap brings a weird heaviness with the cozy vibes, you’re not imagining it. Many midlife women feel more restless in autumn—not just because of shorter days, but because the season quietly reminds us that time is pushing forward. That nudge can feel...
My Viking Funeral (Not a Joke!)
My Viking funeral plans are not a joke. These are my real funeral wishes, made public for the world. I’m sharing exactly how I want my final send-off to look—full Viking-style—so you can…assist…my dear loved ones in implementing my dreams. This isn’t comedy, this is...
Today was a Turning Point 💔
Political positions matter. They shape our world. Values matter more. They shape our character. When a young husband and father is assassinated, while having an open question and answer session and standing for his values—and some people dance and cheer—we are beyond...
Anxiety Is Not a Free Pass for Bad Behavior – Mental Health Caution
Anxiety is real. Anxiety is hard. But here’s the truth—anxiety is not a free pass for bad behavior. In this video, we’re talking about why using mental health as an excuse for mistreating others is unhealthy for everyone involved. From canceling plans and pushing...
From Twerking to Wisdom: What Midlife Women Owe the Next Generation
From Beyoncé’s daughter, Blue Ivy, to Instagram “prom dress rage bait”—kids are simply reflecting what adults model. And too often, that model is shallow, provocative, and harmful. In this Sunday video, I share why midlife isn’t about chasing trends or twerking for...
Thrive After 50: 5 Small Habits That Change Everything
Are you ready to thrive in midlife? In this video, I’m sharing five small but powerful daily habits—I call them my nonnegotiables—that can completely transform how you live after 50. These aren’t overwhelming changes. They’re simple, practical steps that bring more...
10 Easy Ways to Stay Close To Your Adult Kids (Without Being Overbearing)
Want to stay close to your adult kids without overstepping or making it weird? These 10 simple ideas are fun, low-pressure, and totally doable—even if your grown kids are busy, married, or living far away. Midlife parenting isn’t over, it’s just evolved. Let’s make it...
40 Years of Marriage – 40 Lessons We Learned
August 9, 2025 marks 40 years of marriage for us! That means a lot of lessons learned, laughs shared, and love tested in every way possible. Sam and I are sharing 40 relationship lessons from our 40 years of marriage. Whether you’re newlyweds, celebrating your own...
Too Old to Post? Battling Ageism on Social Media
Have you ever been discounted or mocked on social media because of your age? In this video, I’m sharing the real ageist comments I've received as a midlife content creator — and how I choose to respond (or not!). Ageism on social media is real, especially for women...