Love Midlife Hacks
When You Become the Safety Net
There’s a moment most of us don’t see coming. But suddenly, it’s true. As my friend said, you've joined the "orphan club." You are the safety net. After losing both of my parents—and being reminded again at a recent funeral—I started thinking about what this shift...
Why “He Should Just Know” Is Hurting Your Marriage
There’s a popular idea floating around right now—especially on social media—that if a husband really loves you, he shouldn’t need you to ask for anything. He should just know. It sounds romantic. It feels intuitive. And it’s quietly making a lot of marriages...
Easy Winter GNO Tradition
Some winter traditions take zero planning and still end up being the most meaningful. Tonight’s simmer pot night with two of my daughters was one of those moments—simple, cozy, and full of connection. If you’re looking for a low-stress tradition to bring more peace...
The Great Hairdo Gift
Have you ever been the recipient of a supposedly simple act that made an enormous difference? Here is one such service that helped me more than Kendra would ever know. https://youtu.be/HbZMXnPK6i4 Who has helped you in such a way?
When Plans Fall Apart: How to Turn Ruined Days into BETTER Memories
Ever had one of those days when everything goes wrong? You plan the perfect outing—and then the sky opens up. This week’s vlog dives into how to keep ruined plans from ruining your life (and how we turned a canceled zipline adventure into an all-you-can-eat French...
Do Not Fight Over Family Heirlooms: How We Divided Stuff Without a Feud
When my dad passed away, my siblings and I divided his belongings smoothly. Simple. Respectful. Drama-free. My husband’s experience was different. His parents left no wills. One sibling took advantage of the situation, and it caused some resentment. Our choice? Let it...
Stop Bossing Seniors: Why “Purge Before You Die” Is Terrible Advice
Everywhere you turn online, someone is telling seniors to declutter their homes so they won’t leave a "burden" for their kids. It sounds practical. But let’s be honest—it’s terrible advice. Here’s why. Cleaning Out a Home Isn’t ImpossibleWhen my father passed, I was...
The Hidden Reason Autumn Feels Heavy in Midlife
If the first cold snap brings a weird heaviness with the cozy vibes, you’re not imagining it. Many midlife women feel more restless in autumn—not just because of shorter days, but because the season quietly reminds us that time is pushing forward. That nudge can feel...
My Viking Funeral (Not a Joke!)
My Viking funeral plans are not a joke. These are my real funeral wishes, made public for the world. I’m sharing exactly how I want my final send-off to look—full Viking-style—so you can…assist…my dear loved ones in implementing my dreams. This isn’t comedy, this is...
Today was a Turning Point 💔
Political positions matter. They shape our world. Values matter more. They shape our character. When a young husband and father is assassinated, while having an open question and answer session and standing for his values—and some people dance and cheer—we are beyond...
Anxiety Is Not a Free Pass for Bad Behavior – Mental Health Caution
Anxiety is real. Anxiety is hard. But here’s the truth—anxiety is not a free pass for bad behavior. In this video, we’re talking about why using mental health as an excuse for mistreating others is unhealthy for everyone involved. From canceling plans and pushing...
From Twerking to Wisdom: What Midlife Women Owe the Next Generation
From Beyoncé’s daughter, Blue Ivy, to Instagram “prom dress rage bait”—kids are simply reflecting what adults model. And too often, that model is shallow, provocative, and harmful. In this Sunday video, I share why midlife isn’t about chasing trends or twerking for...